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Tuesday, April 30, 2013

The Dating Pool In The Swimming Community

Swimmers can be considered a unique breed of athletes. Both age-group swimmers and masters swimmers often wake up before the sun rises to train, sometimes in frigidly cold or rough water.

For some, they go back to practice in the afternoon or evening and train again until the sun is down. Hours and hours are spent year after year in a disciplined regimen of swimming and dryland training, all performed to shave a few seconds off their best times or to push themselves against the elements in the open water.

Back and forth, in the open water or in a pool, swimmers train with their heads down in the water, either deep in thought or in a zone. If they train together in a pool, they communicate via snippets of conversation between sets. When their muscles are sore and their physical exhaustion is total, they go back home to go to bed early in order to face another day of training. It is a lifestyle that demands time management, commitment, and discipline rare among athletes of any age.

Within this aquatic community, personal relationships develop and blossom, and occasionally whither away. Swimcest, or the act of dating another swimmer on the same team, is widely prevalent from coast to coast in America and many parts of the global swimming world. The cute girl in lane 2, the guy with a killer body, the woman who swims on the weekends, and the man who wears bright swimsuits: these are all representative of individuals who catch the eye of other swimmers.

Dating among swimmers, frowned upon by many coaches, but accepted by others, is a fact whether the swimmers in question are teenagers exploring relationships for the first time or masters swimmers on a rebound from a divorce. While clubs, parties and online communities may be locations where the dating game is played, the pool deck and kicking sets are the alternatives for many high school, college and masters athletes. Swim teams, swim workouts, swim meets and open water events are simply the opportunities where the gender meet, mix and mingle - and one very convenient conduit where many swimmers find girlfriends, boyfriends, partners, and in some cases, spouses.

But a dark side also occurs as sometimes relationships between teammates sour and wrecks havoc on team chemistry or individuals. And in some cases, too much or the wrong kind of swimcest sadly leads to infidelity and divorce, especially within a masters swim team or among adult swimmers. While coaches of high school and college teams often discourage the establishment of relationships between swimmers on their team, human nature usually is a more powerful engine that motivates the swimmers to find ways around their coach's edicts.

Why do relationships emerge between teammates? It is easy to pinpoint the reasons:

1. Lifestyle: teammates often share the same training, competition, nutrition, travel and sleeping habits
2. Convenience: teammates face similar time-intensive schedules
3. Habits: teammates understand the demands of practice with the same daily schedule
4. Bonding: teammates endure so much physically, mentally and emotionally, they develop strong common bonds
5. Opportunity: teammates are regularly seen several hours each week with competitions on the weekends
6. Common interests: teammates are generally like-minded individuals of the same age with similar goals
7. Camaraderie: teammates often share the same thoughts, and outlook based on other teammates, coaches and rivals
8. Tan lines: teammates understand where the unusual tan lines come from (around the eyes, foreheads and backs)
9. Fashion: female teammates are comfortable with their male teammates who are comfortable walking around in swim briefs [this is not always so in America]

Love is in the air...and water.

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2014 Global Open Water Swimming Conference

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The Global Open Water Swimming Conference is a conference on the sport of open water swimming, marathon swimming and swimming during triathlons and multi-sport endurance events.

The conference which has been attended by enthusiasts and luminaries from 6 continents, is devoted to providing information about the latest trends, race tactics, training techniques, equipment, psychological preparation, race organization and safety practices used in the sports of open water swimming, marathon swimming and triathlons.

The conference's mission is to provide opportunities to listen and meet many of the world's most foremost experts in open water swimming, and to meet and discuss the sport among swimmers, coaches, administrators, event organizers, sponsors, vendors, officials, escort pilots, and volunteers from kayakers to safety personnel.

Dozens of presentations at the 2014 Conference at the Mount Stuart House cover numerous aspects of the vast and growing world of open water swimming where attendees can learn and share the latest trends, race tactics, training modalities, swimming techniques, equipment, race organization, logistics, operations, and safety practices for open water swimming as a solo swimmer, competitive athlete, fitness swimmer, masters swimmer, triathlete, multi-sport athlete, administrator, race promoter, sponsor or referee.

The conference was first held in Long Beach, California as part of the 2010 USA Swimming National Open Water Swimming Championships. It has since been held on the Queen Mary in California, at Columbia University and the United Nations in New York City, and in Cork, Ireland. This year in September, it comes to another iconic location, the Mount Stuart House on the Isle of Bute in Scotland.

"The Global Open Water Swimming Conference was started due to the desire and need for athletes, coaches, referees, administrators, race directors, promoters and sponsors from around the world to share, collect and learn information about the growing sports of open water swimming, marathon swimming and triathlons," said founder Steven Munatones. "Other swimming conferences usually offering nothing on open water swimming or perhaps a speech or two, but we thought open water swimming deserves its own global conference. It is great that the community shares its information via the online social network, but there is nothing like meeting other open water swimming enthusiasts face-to-face and talking about the sport from morning to night."

Speakers at the conference include English Channel swimmers, ice swimmers, record holders, renowned coaches, world champions, professional marathon swimmers, renowned race directors, officials and administrators from the Africa, Americas, Asia, Europe and Oceania.

"Because the audience is passionate and educated about the sport and its finest practitioners, the Global Open Water Swimming Conference is also the location of the induction ceremonies for the International Marathon Swimming Hall of Fame and the annual WOWSA Awards that recognize the World Open Water Swimming Man of the Year, the World Open Water Swimming Woman of the Year, the World Open Water Swimming Performance of the Year, and the World Open Water Swimming Offering of the Year. Special Lifetime Achievement Awards are also occasionally presented to individuals who have made significant contributions to the sport over their career."

The 2014 Global Open Water Swimming Conference Programme

Wednesday, September 17th
Leave Glasgow to commence 2-day tour of Scotland [closest international airport is Glasgow]

Thursday, September 18th
Stay Mainland, North of Scotland

Friday, September 19th
14:00 - Swim Loch Lomond
17:00 - Head to Isle of Bute
19:30 - Scottish Banquet
21:30 - Dinner Dance

Saturday, September 20th
09:00 - Registration & Coffee
10:00 - Speeches
12:20 - Lunch and WOWSA Awards
13:40 – Speeches
15:40 - Round Table
19:00 - International Marathon Swimming Hall of Fame Dinner & Induction Ceremony

Sunday, September 21st
09:00 - Registration & Coffee
10:00 - Speeches
14:30 - Swim in St Ninian's Bay on the Isle of Bute

The luminaries of the open water swimming world who will be honored in Scotland will include:

* Sandra Bucha (U.S.A.), International Swimming Hall of Fame Honor Open Water Swimmer and International Marathon Swimming Hall of Fame Honour Swimmer
* Jon Erikson (U.S.A.), International Swimming Hall of Fame Honor Open Water Swimmer
* Claudio Plit (Argentina), International Swimming Hall of Fame Honor Open Water Swimmer
* Judith van Berkel-de Njis (Netherlands), International Swimming Hall of Fame Honor Open Water Swimmer
* David Yudovin (U.S.A.), International Swimming Hall of Fame Honor Open Water Swimmer
* Mercedes Gleitze (Great Britain), International Swimming Hall of Fame Honor Open Water Swimmer
* George Young (Canada), International Swimming Hall of Fame Honor Open Water Swimmer
* Dale Petranech (U.S.A.), International Swimming Hall of Fame Honor Open Water Contributor
* Melissa Cunningham (Australia), 2013 Irving Davids-Captain Roger Wheeler Memorial Award winner
* Vojislav Mijić (Serbia), International Marathon Swimming Hall of Fame Honour Swimmer
* James Anderson (U.S.A.), International Marathon Swimming Hall of Fame Honour Administrator
* Dr. Jane Katz (U.S.A.), International Marathon Swimming Hall of Fame Honour Administrator
* Indonesian Swimming Federation, , International Marathon Swimming Hall of Fame Honour Organisation
* Elizabeth Fry (U.S.A.), International Marathon Swimming Hall of Fame Honour Swimmer
* Pádraig Mallon (Ireland), the 2013 World Open Water Swimming Man of the Year
* Olga Kozydub (Russia), the 2013 World Open Water Swimming Woman of the Year
* Bering Strait Swim (international team), the 2013 World Open Water Swimming Performance of the Year
* International Ice Swimming Association (Ram Barkai, founder, South Africa), the 2013 World Open Water Swimming Offering of the Year

For additional articles on the 2014 Global Open Water Swimming Conference, visit:

* Olga Kozydub To Be Honored In Scotland
* Pádraig Mallon To Be Honored In Mount Stuart Castle
* Mount Stuart House, Splendid Setting For Swimming
* Colleen Blair To Kick-off Global Open Water Swimming Conference
* The Man Who Swims Better Than He Walks
* Joining In The Sea Goddess At The Hall Of Fame
* Mercedes Gleitze To Be Honored In Scotland
* The Incredible Career Of Merceded Gleitze
* Jon Erikson To Be Honoured In Florida
* The Incredible Career Of Mercedes Gleitze
* St Ninian's Bay To Host International Swim Conference

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